It Takes Brokenness to Find It
"My father was 67 when he died, and that's too young, but lately, as I stare at
some hard realities of aging and mortality, I begin to appreciate the fact that
he didn't have to endure a long period of frailty, pain, and dependence. My
father was himself to very the end, brilliant and good and a force of nature,
the most important person in my world, and I miss him terribly even now. Maybe
especially now. I find solace in these words from a poem my friend Naomi Shihab
Nye wrote after the death of her own beloved father: 'There's a way not to be
broken that takes brokenness to find it.'" This short post by Cynthia Carbone
Ward touches on grief, gratitude and love. She shines a spotlight on, "Those
Winter Sundays," Robert Hayden's unforgettable poem and poignant tribute to his
own father.