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When human cultures rub up against each other, we talk of melting pots
and borderlands. When geographic cultures meet up and create a
free-flowing arrangement of habitats and life forms, the term used is
Biogeographic transition zone. Russ Mcspadden shares the surprises such a
vortex presents in this piece from Orion.
Could you check off your entire to-do list in one day? It’s not just possible, you can do it while having fun, doing what you love, and taking time to reflect! Here’s how!
Is it possible to check off your entire to-do list into one day? Even leave some time for creativity, exercise, and cooking a beautiful meal? Well, this doesn’t have to be a dream, in fact, we’re going to introduce you to a man who has conquered such an ideal day in a very unique way! It’s ideas like this that inspire our own versions!
In this Farnam Street interview, Jim Dethmer, founder of The Conscious
Leadership Group shares practical advice about becoming more self-aware,
ditching the victim mindset, and connecting more fully with the people
in our lives. This episode is a masterclass in understanding and
regulating your thoughts and emotions. Dethmer covers how to operate
from a place of love rather than fear and anger, the three ways you can
increase your self-awareness, and the transformative power of 'the
Forget whatever you’ve heard about leaf miners, these common garden pests are little wonders that may be holding up an entire ecosystem! Head over to Hawaii with us to check out how these tiny creatures can have a big impact on conservation.
What can a common garden pest have to do with preserving fragile ecosystems on the islands of Hawaii? There are some astounding connections out there in the wild. Those leaf miners (little larvae that munch their way through leaves) that are destroying your precious pepper plants have some tropical cousins who are key to the survival of an entire species! Here’s your dose of wonder.
"3,788 unaccompanied refugee children are currently located in Greece,
having been violently separated from their families. For these children
there are only 1,635 places in proper accommodation facilities, while
the rest remain in Reception and Identification Centers, police
stations, camps, even in the street. The National Center for Social
Solidarity (EKKA) places unaccompanied children in accommodation
facilities, depending on availability and on the vulnerability of the
children. For many years, even before the refugee crisis, unaccompanied
children would remain for long time in detention centers, even if a
place in an accommodation facility in Greece had been found for them, as
there was no one to escort them there. METAdrasi covers this gap since
2011, and, to date, has escorted with safety more than 11,100 children,
during 4,000 missions. Such a mission for the escorting of unaccompanied
children begun one day in May 2019..."
In 1987, while teaching a class at MIT [the Massachusetts Institute of
Technology] on nonviolence, philosophy lecturer Lee Perlman had a novel
idea: "Why not take the students to a prison, to talk with men who had
committed extreme forms of violence?" Now, 30 years later, through the
MIT Prison Initiative that he founded, Perlman teaches classes to a
mixed cohort of both MIT students and prisoners at two medium- to
maximum-security Massachusetts Correctional Institutions in Norfolk and
Framingham. Dr. Perlman considers himself to be primarily an educator,
and has designed and taught a number of courses at MIT which offer
students an integrated view of the humanities and sciences in the
western tradition. More in this in-depth interview.
Many of us tell our children about a rotund, bearded man in red, who lives in the icy tundra at the top of the world. He is tasked with judging the moral worth of children everywhere. He has a list. He has checked it twice. And there is no court of appeals.
We promise our children that, on a known date and under the cover of darkness, he will sneak into our homes. Here, his judgment will be delivered. In preparation, it is customary to erect and decorate a tree inside one’s home (a dead one, or a simulacrum, will do just fine) and to leave a food sacrifice of high-fat cookies and nutrient-rich milk. He will then repeat this act several billion times, aided by his entourage of flying polar caribou.
Why would children believe something so absurd? And can it teach us anything about how children come to discriminate between what is real and what is no…
Researchers studying gratitude have found that being thankful and expressing it to others is good for our health and happiness. Not only does it feel good, it also helps us build trust and closer bonds with the people around us.
These benefits have mostly been observed in a two-person exchange—someone saying thanks and someone receiving thanks. Now, a new study suggests that expressing gratitude not only improves one-on-one relationships, but could bring entire groups together—inspiring a desire to help and connect in people who simply witness an act of gratitude.
In this extensive study, Sara Algoe of the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill and her colleagues ran multiple experiments to investigate how witnessing gratitude affects people’s feelings toward the grateful person and the benefactor (the person who is being thanked).
Could freediving into a frozen lake teach us something about living a less stressful life? Let’s hear from these divers about what they’re experiencing as they explore the icy depths. It may just give you a few ideas of your own!
As we face task after task each day, it’s easy to get caught up in the motor of our minds. But these freedivers are here to let us in on the art of letting go! Here’s what it looks like to be able to focus on what we can actually control in life.
Picture this: It's almost 11pm on a hot August day. You're exhausted,
having just driven over 600 miles, and you arrive at the newly opened
Marriott, your last hope for a place to lay your tired body down for the
night. You are third in line at the front desk, where there is a single
young woman on duty, doing everything she can to keep things under
control. When you finally arrive at room 309, you find it completely
untouched by maid service. Read this incredible story about who's got
the night shift at the Marriott.
Sue Cochrane is a former family court judge who sought to bring more
love into the practice of law. The forces she battled were not confined
to the court room -- among them, poverty, violence, addiction, abuse, a
terminal diagnosis and more. In this powerful piece, she explores
kintsugi -- a stunning Japanese art form in which broken pottery is
repaired by filling the cracks with gold. Kingtsugi, poems, quotes, and
books inspire this remarkable individual, "to find healing in a life
that for a long time, was not only cracked, but broken apart -- and, in a
few places completely shattered." Cochrane tells her story here as a
reminder of our shared humanity, our vulnerability, and the capacity we
have to heal our brokenness in beautiful ways.
Do you have struggles around eating? If you do, you’re not alone. In the United States, millions of people will fit the diagnosis for binge eating disorder at some point in their lifetime. Many more have less severe eating issues—such as obsessing over calorie counting or feeling shame when they eat “bad” foods—that wreak havoc on their health and happiness.
Often, people with problematic eating patterns are worried about their weight and attempt to lose weight by cycling through dieting regimens, which often backfire. Even if a diet does result in weight loss, it can lead to an unhealthy preoccupation with food and eating.
According to Howard Farkas, a psychologist specializing in emotional eating and the author of a new book, 8 Keys to End Emotional Eating, part of the problem lies in how our minds work against the goal of weight loss.
“How do you respond to critics who have pointed out all of the problems of authenticity in organizations?”
We were at the end of a workshop on finding meaning and purpose at work—and the question, from a senior human resources executive, stunned me a bit.
“Can you tell me more?” I asked. “There are problems with authenticity?”
“Oh, yes,” she replied, “It’s a big problem. Loads of hostility and aggression. No company would buy into a meaningful work program if it was going to give rise to authenticity.”
In the conversation that ensued, I discovered that this executive was truly concerned that authenticity was being poisoned. Behind her question, you can almost see the workplace goblins licking their chops, feeling armed with another way to abuse others and slink away with a parting excuse: “Don’t be so sensitive. We’re supposed …
"Imagine feeling more love from someone than you have ever known. You're
being loved even more than your mother loved you when you were an
infant, more than you were ever loved by your father, your child, or
your most intimate lover--anyone...This love is actually part of you; it
is always flowing through you. It's like the subatomic texture of the
universe, the dark matter that connects everything. When you tune in to
that flow, you will feel it in your own heart--not your physical heart
or your emotional heart, but your spiritual heart, the place you point
to in your chest when you say, 'I am.'" More in this beautiful passage
by Ram Dass.
If you’ve seen your children struggle to forgive someone for hurting them, you know that forgiveness is complicated. After all, forgiveness is complicated for adults, too. At times, we wonder why we’re trying to forgive someone anyway; later, we might think we’ve forgiven them, only to experience a sudden burst of anger and resentment.
Indeed, my research has found that it takes many years for us to grasp the notion of forgiveness as we grow up. In over 30 years of studying forgiveness, I have interviewed children and adolescents, as well as college students and adults—and found that our understanding of forgiveness evolves over childhood and young adulthood, partly influenced by what we learn from our parents and communities.
Young children are often taught that the proclamation of “I am sorry” followed by the automatic reply of “I forgive you” can solve any conflict. This may be because we as parent…