Existential Maturity

An Excerpt from Life Purpose Boot Camp by Eric Maisel

Phil Jackson, the famous basketball coach, was fond of re-marking that while people never change, they do mature. That’s an interesting distinction, isn’t it? Apparently you must remain you, but you can become a mature version of you. The fact is, you can grow into a mature understanding of meaning and life purpose and as a result become an existentially adult version of yourself.

Having life purposes makes no one a saint. But deciding on your life purposes and trying to live them are signs of maturity. Living our life purposes on an angry day, when it would be so easy to lash out, may help us do the right thing instead of the wrong thing. Remembering on a bleak day that the experience of meaning can and will return helps us to opt for hope rather than despair. Living our life purposes may help us love a little more than is actually in our heart to love and hate a little less than is actually in our heart to hate. Our life purposes are reminders ...

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